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Accept Responsibility for Your Mistakes if You Want to Patch Things Up With Your Ex

Accept Responsibility for Your Mistakes if You Want to Patch Things Up With Your Ex


    

Accept Responsibility for Your Mistakes if You Want to Patch Things Up With Your Ex

by Ricardo d Argence

Let's face it; if you're hoping to patch things up between you and your ex, then you had better be prepared for the fact that you're going to have to face up to the truth.

One thing you can be absolutely sure of is that if your relationship ended because of mistakes you made, you'll not only have to fix them, but you'll also have to face the music and apologize.

Before you make the decision to get back with your ex, you need to be willing to address whatever's gone wrong within the relationship, as well as your part in it.

You should also bear in mind that it won't do any good for you to come down too hard on yourself for having made mistakes. Remember, everybody makes mistakes and it's not the mistakes which are important, but rather high you deal with them afterwards.

Rather than rush into anything, take some time out in order to analyze what went wrong and what it was that led up to the relationship breaking down. Additionally, try not to focus on any mistakes your ex made because that is something you can deal with in the future. Right now you're only need to worry about those things which you can influence.

Whatever mistakes you find in your past behavior, can they be forgiven? Don't be too eager to get down on yourself and believe that your mistakes are basically unforgivable.

Bear in mind that many couples find themselves in the most ridiculous situations and yet they are able to recover their relationship. As such, you need to remember that there is always hope.

Ideally, you should try to establish what events where taking place in your life at the time when you made those mistakes. This is even more important if they were completely out of character and remember what was mentioned earlier in this article, in that you must be willing to face the music.

Perhaps you'll notice that at that time of you making those mistakes, you were under an exceptional amount of stress, or perhaps your career was lying in the balance. In fact, you may have been experiencing serious family issues or you may just not have been feeling like your usual self. If that was the case, then of course you'll need to sit down with your ex and explain everything in detail.

If your mistakes were the result of you just being thoughtless or selfish, then this is something about you and your character that can quite easily be fixed. It will take ongoing monitoring but if you are sincerely committed to get back with ex, then it is going to be worthwhile.

Once you're satisfied that you have a clear understanding with regards to your mistakes and why you made them, then you should consider contacting your ex to arrange a meeting. For your sake as well as her, you should choose to meet each other in a public area where there are lots of people as this will discourage both of you from becoming emotional.

Whatever you do, you need to remain calm and focused on what you have to say. Of course, it only is stands to reason that you will also need to apologize at this point and even ask for forgiveness. With that out of the way, you'll now need to pay attention to what she has to say.

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