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3 Steps to Get Back Together With Your Ex

3 Steps to Get Back Together With Your Ex


3 Steps to Get Back Together With Your Ex

by Elena Shaw

If you have just recently experienced a break up, and you are asking yourself "how can I get back together with my ex"? This shows that you may want to score your ex back immediately. This is a common feeling that everyone goes through so there is nothing to worry about.

You can find yourself following into an emotionally depressed state, and you may find yourself wondering what to do. You may feel like calling your ex at once and begging him or her to come back to you. But is this really going to make things better? Rather than make things better, what it is probably going to do is make your situation much worse, chasing your ex even further away.

Don't follow your emotions and don't do what seems to be appropriate at this time. I am talking about the common acts of calling your lover or crying and thinking that you have reached the end of your life. If you are willing to put some effort then this three step plan can help you to get back your ex sooner than you expect.

Step 1 - To get back your ex you must accept the truth

First and foremost, you need to accept that the break up is happening. Telling your ex that you are okay with it is a good thing. Allow the "moving on" process to begin. When you do this, it will eliminate a large part of the tension and stress that is being experienced by all. Your ex will need time to think about the relationship, and this will give you time as well to consider your options. If your ex realizes that he or she still loves you, they will find a way to get back with you.

Step 2 - To get your ex back never contact your ex

You may find it hard but you must not contact your ex at this point. If you
keep calling your ex then he or she may think that you are desparate to
get them back and we don't want this to happen. Moreover you will also
think better if you are not in contact with your ex. This second step plays
a very important role as it solves many purposes. Your ex will think that you are doing fine without them. Now your ex will feel how valuable you were for them. If you can control your emotions for the time being then hopefully your ex will soon realize your importance and will try to get back with you again.

Step 3 - To get back your ex plan before you meet up

When the first two steps are completed, you should start planning about the meeting with your ex. You can plan about the time and place of your meeting (hint: an old place which both of you love). You can even plan about what to say when you meet your ex in person after the break up. This will enable you to know if your ex wants you back or not. This meeting will also clear any misunderstanding (if any) as both of you are now deciding about the importance of the other in your life. If both of you still love each other then you will get together with your ex.

"How to get back with my ex?" Can be a little more complicated than the three steps above. But they are a good start and will improve your chances of winning your ex back.

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